Carmelite homily for Tuesday, March 5, 2024 – Lectionary 238 (Matthew 18:21-35).
In today’s Gospel Simon asks a really good question, “How many times do I have to forgive my brother? As many as seven?” And Jesus answers, “Seventy times seven.” What’s going on here; first off, when the woman is anointing Jesus’ feet and the Pharisee says, “Uh, if he knew what kind of woman this is he wouldn’t let this happen.” And so Jesus lets the Pharisee have it, but then he closes with, “Besides, she is forgiven much for she loves much.” I think there’s a tie, there’s an intrinsic tie between love and forgiveness. So when Simon is asking this question about his brother, and his brother happens to be Andrew by the way, is there love lost there, is there love missing? As Saint Teresa of Avila says, “If we fail in love of our neighbor, we are lost…beg our Lord to give us this perfect love of neighbor.” That’s really what’s at stake here, not forgiveness but love of neighbor.
